before spring comes, let’s have a look before it’s warm

It’s been 9 months since my last Thought Catalog entry. I just got a new article approved. Of all the days, they chose this day.

When I submitted my entry, I had this feeling that it wasn’t good enough. I was right. Usually, I would just drop it and post the rejected piece here but I was asked to revise it.

“Hi Vienna. This is a very powerful idea however there are quite a few errors throughout that weaken it overall as a piece and give the impression this isn’t a final draft. Give it another look, ensure it’s publication ready, and resubmit once it’s been revised.”

I told myself I have to get it published. I erased mostly everything and wrote it again. Today, January 23rd, it went live on TC’s site. Today. The release of Jonghyun’s last album. His last goodbye. The article is about him. It is for him. He probably wanted it to be published, too. What a punk. Hahaha! I love him so much 😦



Words fail. Writing has always been my outlet. I feel freedom once I write my feelings down. I am free when I turn those emotions into words. It heals me. I can write—that is mainly what I like about me. Until that night. That night, no words escaped my mouth. My tongue couldn’t form anything. My mind was blank. No words can describe the shock. No words can give justice to the pain. It was the first time that I knew words wouldn’t be enough. It would never be enough. My words were trapped. I was caged.

Words break. I didn’t want to believe the words that reached me. I didn’t want to accept the fact that they were true. I was in denial. I didn’t want to believe my eyes. No, this is not happening. I’ve never hated a word so much. Depression. The word is too strong; too dangerous to be defined simply. It destroyed him. Suicide. A word that is very powerful and destructive. It devastated me. It shattered everyone who holds him dearly. Those two words wrecked us in the most unimaginable ways. Those two words will forever break us—down to our deepest core.

Words reach out. Maybe we could have talked him out of it. Maybe if we have said the right words, he would have changed his mind. He spent all his life using his words to reach people. He touched our lives with his words. We should have reached him the same way, if not more. You did well. Those three words he longed for to hear. Is it too late to say it to him now? Will it still reach him somehow?

Words keep going. Even when he’s gone, his words will live on. He will live on, not just in memories but also in songs. He will always be the melody of my keyboard when I type. He will always live on in each word I write. He just stopped breathing but I know he’s still watching—urging me to keep going. His soul still resides in mine.

Words bleed and heal. I lost my words when I lost him. Words broke me when it was supposed to help me keep myself together. That night, I failed to reach out to him. It still hurts. I am still bleeding. I don’t know if I will ever be okay again. But while I’m at it, maybe I can use each droplet of blood to get back the words I forgot I have in me. I wasn’t able to save him but maybe if I try harder, I can save someone. Maybe when I let myself bleed words, I can finally heal. And maybe one day, my words will finally reach him, too. TC mark

Originally posted here.

This is the last music video he filmed. Look how happy he is here! I just can’t stop smiling while I’m watching him this radiant. “Always be with you”, the song says. He really did well. He is still doing well. He just dropped the Album of the year from heaven. I’m so proud of you, Jjong. You did well.


Please give his album lots of love. I hope you find comfort in his songs. If you are still hurting, please still keep going. I am rooting for you. You got this. 🙂


I love all the songs! But if you will, my top three are: Before Our Spring, Shinin’ and Just For A Day. Listen to it a lot. 🙂

[EDIT] SM released a compilation vid of Jonghyun using Before Our Spring as its song. Look how wonderful our Jjong is. Please love him even more. 🙂


You can read my first draft of the article here and you’ll see how much it differs from the one that got published. Let me know what you think!

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